While many view life abroad as glamorous and effortless, immigrants living in the United States say the reality is far more demanding, shaped by constant financial pressure and responsibility.
A US-based Kenyan nurse, Nafula Sharleen, has sparked conversation online after opening up about the realities of life in the United States, warning against social media pressure and highlighting the harsh economic demands immigrants face.
In her candid remarks, Nafula said life in the US is structured in a way that forces people to maintain a strong work ethic or risk falling into financial instability.
“USA will force you to have good work ethic, unless you want to live huko kwa projects kwa free housing,” she said, adding that even basic comfort requires consistent income or a profitable business.
She explained that living in middle- and high-income neighbourhoods in the US is not a matter of luxury but discipline, noting that most people must “clock in and clock out” daily to sustain their lifestyle.
According to her, financial pressure is a constant reality for many residents, regardless of appearance. She noted that job loss or business failure can quickly lead to severe consequences.
“Many people in USA, if they get fired from their jobs tomorrow or their business goes bankrupt, then next month they will be homeless,” she said.
Nafula further described the cost of living as heavily reliant on credit and debt, arguing that many individuals are managing multiple financial obligations at once.
“Gari deni, nyumba deni, umeme deni, simu deni, wifi deni… some even nguo na furniture kwa nyumba walinunua kwa mkopo,” she said.
She cautioned against comparing oneself with the flashy lifestyles often displayed on social media, saying many people are under financial pressure despite appearing successful.
“Do NOT be jealous of people who show off on social media kuwapa pressure bure. Hizi ma Mercedes, Tesla, BMW tunaendesha zote ni Arap Madeni,” she added humorously.
Nafula also pointed out that life in the US can change quickly due to job loss, illness, or legal issues, leaving many vulnerable.
“Most people in USA are one paycheck away from homelessness, one business mistake away from bankruptcy,” she said, stressing that stability is never guaranteed.
She concluded by urging people to remain humble and avoid judging others, especially new immigrants, noting that circumstances can change unexpectedly.
“Do NOT despise a new immigrant… in 10 years you might be despising your future boss or landlord. Stay humble,” she said, adding that even if she returned home, she would still value simple survival and basic necessities.