For years, land has remained one of the most sensitive and emotional assets for families across Kenya.
From rural homesteads to prime agricultural acreage, disputes over ownership often fracture relationships, turning blood relatives into courtroom rivals.
What begins as a disagreement over boundaries can quickly escalate into prolonged legal battles, draining both finances and trust.
That was the reality for Daniel and his elder brother, Patrick.
The two inherited eight acres of ancestral land in their village after their father’s death. At first, the understanding was simple: divide the property equally and allow each family to develop their share.
But when a surveyor marked the boundaries, Patrick objected. He insisted the fertile section near the river belonged to him, arguing he had contributed more to their father’s medical bills.
What started as a family discussion turned into hostility. Village elders attempted mediation, but each meeting ended in raised voices. Patrick accused Daniel of greed.
Daniel accused his brother of manipulation. Eventually, Patrick filed a case in court, seeking full ownership of the prime portion.
Months turned into years.
Court adjournments became routine. Legal fees mounted. Daniel’s small farming project stalled because he could not confidently invest in disputed land.
At family gatherings, the brothers avoided eye contact. Their children, once close cousins, stopped visiting each other.
The emotional toll weighed heavily on Daniel. He felt betrayed and isolated. With eviction threats looming and community whispers growing louder, he began to fear losing not just land, but his dignity.
Out of frustration and desperation, Daniel contacted Dr Bokko.
He did not tell many people about it. To him, it was a private attempt to seek clarity and resolution in a situation that had spiraled beyond logic. He explained the long-running dispute, the bitterness, and the court delays that seemed endless.
In the weeks that followed, subtle but significant shifts began to unfold.
Patrick, who had been adamant about pursuing the case aggressively, unexpectedly agreed to an out-of-court discussion.
A relative who had previously refused to get involved offered to mediate again. Even the lawyer handling the matter suggested exploring settlement options to avoid further financial strain.
Daniel noticed something else: the hostility had softened. Conversations that once ended in shouting were now measured. The rigid positions both men held began to loosen.
Eventually, through renewed mediation, the brothers reached a compromise. The land was subdivided in a way that balanced access to the river and arable soil. The court case was withdrawn. Legal expenses stopped accumulating.
For the first time in three years, Daniel walked across his portion of land without anxiety.
He began planting maize again, cautiously optimistic. Family gatherings slowly resumed their warmth. The cousins played together as they once had.
While some neighbors attributed the reconciliation to maturity and fatigue from prolonged conflict, Daniel believed contacting Dr Bokko marked the turning point.
What mattered most was not who won or lost, but that the land no longer divided the family. Peace, once distant and fragile, had finally returned to their ancestral home. CONTINUE READING

