I had dated my boyfriend for many years. We loved each other, supported each other, and even planned life together in small ways. But every time I mentioned marriage, he changed the topic.
At first, I pretended not to mind. Later, the silence started hurting. I feared wasting my best years waiting for a promise that might never come.
I did not want to pressure him or threaten to leave.
I wanted clarity, peace, and a clear direction for my life. I asked myself one hard question: Does he fear marriage, or does he fear marrying me? That question pushed me to act wisely, not emotionally.
I began by changing myself not to impress him, but to regain my confidence. I focused on my goals, work, and happiness. I stopped begging for attention and stopped arguing about the future. Surprisingly, this shift caught his attention.
He started noticing the distance and asked what had changed.
Still, I felt there was a deeper block. Something unseen was keeping him stuck in fear and indecision.
A friend who had gone through a similar situation advised me to seek guidance. That’s when I contacted Doctor Bokko on +254 769 404 965. Doctor Bokko listened to my story carefully.
He explained that sometimes long relationships get trapped in comfort without commitment. Fear, confusion, and outside influence can delay serious steps like marriage. His guidance focused on clarity, seriousness, and restoring balance in love, not forcing anyone.
I followed the advice with patience. I learned how to speak with confidence, set healthy boundaries, and let my boyfriend see the value of commitment without pressure. I also learned when to stay silent and when to speak firmly about my future.
Within weeks, things changed. My boyfriend became more serious. He started talking about plans, family, and timelines things he once avoided. One evening, he surprised me by asking if we could talk about our future properly.
That conversation changed everything.
Months later, he officially came to my family and declared his intention to marry me. He admitted that he had been afraid of responsibility, but the clarity and peace he felt helped him make a decision.
Today, we are preparing for marriage with mutual respect and understanding. I learned that love should not beg. Sometimes, the right guidance helps two people move forward together.
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