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A man’s emotional confession shared on X has sparked heated debate online after he accused his wife of silently ruining the life of his alleged girlfriend after discovering his affair.
The story, shared by influencer Moonlight, describes how the wife chose not to confront or fight her husband.
Instead, according to the man, she acted calmly but decisively, with actions that later caused serious damage to the girlfriend and her family.
The man claimed the trouble began at his girlfriend’s workplace.
He alleged that his wife somehow found out where the woman worked and contacted the office, sending messages and screenshots said to prove the affair.
Shortly after, the girlfriend reportedly lost her job.
Her employer allegedly cited poor conduct and workplace distractions as the reason for the dismissal. The man said the woman was left shocked and confused, unaware of how her private life reached her employer.
He further claimed that his wife then turned her attention to the girlfriend’s family. According to the post, the wife reported the girlfriend’s mother’s shop to local authorities, accusing it of breaking safety and hygiene rules.
These included claims of expired goods, poor waste disposal, lack of fire safety equipment, and blocking public walkways. Within days, officials reportedly inspected the shop and shut it down, leaving the family distressed.
The man said the situation worsened when his wife allegedly contacted the husband of the girlfriend’s sister.
He claimed she sent him screenshots of private chats between the man and the girlfriend, saying she only wanted him to know the truth.
This, according to the post, caused serious problems in the sister’s marriage and led to family conflicts.
“My girlfriend is crying every day. Her family is blaming her for bringing shame,” the man wrote, adding that he felt stuck and overwhelmed by the fallout.
He accused his wife of going too far, saying she should have focused on their children instead of “destroying everyone connected” to the girlfriend.
He described her actions as cruel and admitted that he had started questioning the kind of person he married, claiming he even feared for his safety at home.
The story has divided people online. Some users criticised the wife for allegedly dragging innocent family members into the dispute.
Others defended her, arguing that she responded to betrayal using legal and lawful channels.
However, many turned their anger on the man, blaming him for the chaos and accusing him of avoiding responsibility for his actions.
Reactions;
Big Name: Moon light myths, I been wan curse u then I remember say the story na myth. Make u dey to mind as you dey drop story.
Uchiha: You are the wicked person here, does your religion agree with polygamy? Why the hell are you wondering if she is wicked or not? You are broh, you did this.
Othniel Ofure: You're very mad you're complaining that she isn't focusing on the children and her life. You were you focusing on your family when you went with another girl. I know what she did is extreme but it's better than unnecessary fights and arguments. Kudos to your wife.
Fareeda Kiri: Some men will deliberately hurt you and expect you not to react about it.Sammy Ola: Silence doesn’t mean weakness. Some people don’t shout, don’t fight… they act. Underestimate quiet anger at your own risk.
Man Tonai: Omo! I were this man, would really be scared of my life around her. But the man saying his wife "carries bible", does he not go to church too? Why is he cheating on his wife?
Adabekee: That sounds like a painful situation all around, and actions like that can escalate harm for everyone involved. It might be time to focus on accountability, honest conversations, and figuring out what kind of life and relationships you truly want.