A South African man has left social media stunned after sharing a chilling confession with relationship influencer Ntando on X about discovering his wife cheating—and feeling nothing after her tragic death.
“I found my wife in bed with another man in October last year, in our bedroom,” he revealed directly to Ntando. Despite the shocking scene, he stayed calm and politely asked the man to leave.
“They were not using protection. I never said a word to my wife. I just carried on with my life as usual,” he added.
He continued supporting the household, paying bills, buying groceries, and taking care of their children. The only change was in his intimacy—he stopped being intimate with her.
Tragedy struck three weeks later when their child found her unconscious on the floor with an empty packet of pills beside her. She later passed away. “During her funeral, the only pain I felt was seeing our kids cry. Her death didn’t affect me at all,” he admitted.
Screenshot of the confession. Credit: Ntando M/X
He says he has never told anyone else about what happened.
“I never shared this with anyone. It’s a secret I’ll take to the grave. Everyone assumed she was depressed, but they didn’t know the truth,” he wrote.
He questioned whether his emotional silence is normal.
“Even now, I feel nothing,” he added, leaving followers and Ntando’s audience shocked and reflective.
The post has sparked debate online, with users asking whether his reaction shows emotional strength, trauma, or detachment.