Marriage was supposed to be a place of comfort, but mine slowly turned into a space of tension and silence.
My husband became resentful over time, angry without explanation, and extremely stingy.
He would go days without giving money for food or household needs, yet he had no problem spending on himself. I felt humiliated having to ask for basics, and even worse, being dismissed as if I didn’t matter.
I tried to fix things the “right” way. I spoke calmly, I cried, I involved elders, and I prayed. Nothing worked. His heart felt closed. The resentment grew deeper, and the financial neglect became normal.
I started feeling trapped married, yet completely unsupported. People around me kept saying, “Just be patient,” but patience was slowly draining my strength.
Things reached a breaking point when I fell sick and had no money for treatment, yet he refused to help.
That night, I realized something was seriously wrong. This was no longer just about money it was about bitterness and a blocked connection in our marriage.
I confided in a woman I trusted, and she told me about Doctor Bokko, someone who had helped many families restore peace and understanding without drama or confrontation.
At first, I was unsure. I had never thought of seeking help outside what I already knew. But desperation pushed me to try.
When I spoke to Doctor Bokko, he listened patiently and explained that unresolved resentment can harden a person’s heart, affecting love, generosity, and communication.
He guided me on what to do, focusing on restoring balance and softening what had become blocked. Slowly, things began to change. My husband’s anger reduced. He started talking again calmly.
One evening, without me asking, he brought money home and suggested we plan together. I was shocked. Over the following weeks, his generosity returned, his tone softened, and the man I married slowly came back.
The resentment that once filled our home faded. Today, I live in peace. I no longer beg, I am respected, and our marriage feels like a partnership again.
If you are living with a resentful, stingy, or emotionally distant partner and everything you’ve tried has failed, know that you are not alone and you are not wrong to seek help.
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