For years, I lived with a quiet but constant ache in my chest.
Everywhere I turned, life seemed to be moving forward for everyone except me. Social media became painful to scroll through—graduation photos, promotion announcements, wedding celebrations, baby showers.
Faces I once sat next to in class now wore caps and gowns, while I struggled to explain why I was still “trying.” I smiled publicly, but inside I felt left behind and forgotten.
At work, it was no different. Coworkers I trained with were promoted ahead of me. Some became supervisors, others moved to better opportunities. I remained in the same position, year after year, despite my effort and dedication.
Conversations changed around me. People spoke down to me without realizing it, offering advice I never asked for. I felt invisible and stuck, like my life was paused while everyone else pressed play.…CONTINUE READING