Suba North MP Millie Odhiambo has weighed in on the growing public debate surrounding claims by Kisii Senator Richard Onyonka that he is in a polygamous marriage, reportedly involving former IEBC commissioner Roselyn Akombe.
The claims, which have circulated widely online, triggered mixed reactions among Kenyans, with sections of the public questioning the alleged relationship, while others defended the right to personal choice in marriage.
In a statement shared online, Odhiambo urged Kenyans to respect individual decisions, emphasizing that Kenya legally recognises different forms of marriage, including both monogamous and polygamous unions.
“Kenya has a multiple system for marriages including monogamous, polygamous, etc. Being in a polygamous union is a personal choice. Being in a monogamous union is a personal choice,” she said.
The legislator cautioned against what she described as growing social media pressure, particularly targeting educated women. She dismissed narratives suggesting that academic achievement should dictate personal life decisions.
“Let no one pressurize you that a PhD holder is wife no this or that. If you are a vegetable vendor and you want to be the only woman in your man's life, proudly do so. If you are a PhD holder and want to be wife number 40, proudly do so,” she added.
Her remarks appeared to respond directly to online commentary focusing on Akombe’s academic and professional background, with many questioning how a highly educated woman working internationally could be associated with a polygamous union.
Akombe, who previously served at the Independent Electoral and Boundaries Commission (IEBC), is currently a senior official within the United Nations system in the United States, a role that has further amplified public interest in the claims.
Senator Onyonka had earlier stated that he is polygamous and a father of several children, remarks that have since fueled the ongoing conversation. However, the nature and details of his personal relationships remain a subject of public scrutiny.
The discussion has since evolved into a broader national conversation on marriage, gender expectations, and personal autonomy, reflecting shifting societal attitudes in Kenya.
While some Kenyans have defended traditional and legal recognition of polygamy, others continue to question its place in modern society, particularly among professionals and public figures.